Merry Xmas

[marko]

Lost my dad to cancer 3 months ago, was gutted to lose not just my dad but my best friend also. This week my partner of 20 years who i have 2 kids with has decided to end our relationship due to my changeable moods, wants me top move out of our house which we share the mortgage on.

[big_gordy]

sorry to hear that bud i know the feeling re the morgage thing!! nightmare but you will get throught it m8

[marko]

never felt so low, esp at this time of year.

[v6 steve]

keep your head up mate im sure things will work out for the best even if you cant see it a the mo, try and have a good xmas and all the best for 2011

[marko]

thanks for the supprot guys, im trying to keep a positive view but its hard going at the mo.

[tazz666]

sorry to hear that mate ,but dont leave the house mate as in the eyes of the law it means you have given up all rights to your home and your property the only other option is to make her buy you out,or vice versa, but i wish you all the best mate as i was in the same situation a few years ago and it will get easier

[Robs-se]

Thats not good mate, have a sit down and think your options through before making any rash decisions. Think whats best for youand as Tazz says dont you move out or you could end up paying out loads, mortgage and rent on new place etc

[v6 steve]

sorry to hear that mate ,but dont leave the house mate as in the eyes of the law it means you have given up all rights to your home and your property the only other option is to make her buy you out,or vice versa, but i wish you all the best mate as i was in the same situation a few years ago and it will get easier

some times staying isnt right eather a wee break might make her miss you and want you back is a tuff call you have to make

[BazV6er]

sorry to hear about that mate, hope things get better soon